Lying Rambo Bear
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It is no surprise that such things as dishonesty, trickery, and half-truths can be found in our fallen world. The question is not whether lying is present. It is clear that the answer to that is an obvious “YES!”
I guess the question is “When is lying acceptable?”
Read the question below and choose the best answer:
Lying is acceptable…
A. when the situation involves reputation.
B. when the circumstance requires concealment.
C. when the individual desires advancement.
D. when protecting another from imminent danger.
E. never.
The best answer might come as a surprise; the only time lying is acceptable unto God is never!
There have been many people who justify lying because of the story of Rahab. If one looks to the New Testament and sees the depiction of Rahab in Hebrews 11:31 and James 2:25, there is no praise of her lying mentioned. The reason she is commended is because of her obedience, faith, and repentance from a life of sin. She is recognized for her faith and her service to God through obedience; her action of lying is not condoned.
Rahab was a pagan prostitute and the theme seen is not that lying is condoned, but rather that obedience and faith are honorable and remain honorable regardless of one’s sinful, defective character.
Lying is not simply saying something that isn’t true; it is also making a situation or circumstance appear a certain way. Actors and those in theatre know this best. They are very good at twisting and manipulating a circumstance so as to make it appear a certain way to the audience. The only problem is that when it comes to a person’s daily life, it is not justified to do the same.
Twisting a situation, or telling a story that never happened, just won’t cut it with God. I know of individuals who will tell a story to another that never occurred in order that the message they are trying to convey will be delivered so that the recipient will be able to relate.
It is easier to lie than tell the truth. Take for example, Tucker who told a false testimony to a body of believers in order for them to be able to feel like they could connect. Fabricating a history of participating in underage-drinking and wild parties, Tucker reached his goal of convincing his audience that he has, indubitably, been changed by Christ. The problem is that Tucker never did any of those things and simply said that he did in order to spruce up his otherwise uneventful testimony.
The ends do not justify the means. Lying is not condoned by God.
Exodus 20:16; Leviticus 19:11; Proverbs 6: 16-19; Ephesians 4:25; Colossians 3:9; Revelations 21:8
We lie to present ourselves in ways that give off a desired appearance. Whether we want to appear wise, diligent, transparent, smart, trustworthy or appear to posses any other trait, lying is not going to help.
You can seemingly be the most hard-working, diligent, trustworthy, smart, transparent, good-hearted person alive, but if it isn’t based on Truth, the false traits will be exposed and the real character will be unearthed. Even if no one on planet Earth will ever know, God does.
Lies can be so rehearsed and incorporated into our daily lives that they almost seem like truth, deceiving ourselves.
Repenting of lying is one of the hardest things to do because it requires the fear of God to be greater than the fear of man. It requires one to be abased and admit that the lying is indeed sin. Repenting of lying involves making a conscious effort to stop dishonesty, falsehood, and half-truths, replacing such things with Truth and integrity.
If you’re caught in a circumstance where lying’s involved, I challenge you to write down the truth and write down the lie. Write down the lies and concealed things and make it your goal to speak the truth, no matter how hard it may be.
Doing the right thing is painful, but worth it. Don’t believe me? Christ died a painful death on the cross. His obedience to God was the right thing. Christ did not suffer without reward; He has the name above all names, is king above all kings, and it is by HIS NAME that all are saved. No matter how things appear, doing the right thing has the greatest reward. Tell the truth, be honest, and choose God over man and the things of this world.